Why Is Drinking with the Boss Considered “Work”? (The “Nomikai” Culture)

It’s Not a Party, It’s “Nomunication”
In Western companies, you go home at 5 PM. In Japan, the team often goes to an Izakaya. This is “Nomikai” (Drinking Party). But relax, it’s not just for fun. It’s called “Nomunication” (Nomu + Communication). Japanese people are shy at the office, so alcohol is the essential lubricant to speak the truth and bond with the team.

The “Kamiza” Trap
Don’t just sit anywhere! There is a strict seating hierarchy. The boss sits at “Kamiza” (Honorary Seat), usually the furthest from the door. New employees sit at “Shimoza” (Lower Seat), closest to the door, to order drinks and handle the bill. If you sit in the boss’s seat, the room will freeze.

Never Pour Your Own Drink
This is the golden rule. If you pour your own beer, it implies your neighbors are rude for not noticing your empty glass. Always pour for others (hold the bottle with two hands!), and wait for them to pour for you. It is a ritual of mutual service.

The Lie of “Breiko”
The boss might say, “Tonight is Breiko!” (Let’s forget rank and be equals!). DO NOT BELIEVE THIS. It is a trap. You can loosen your tie and joke a little, but if you actually treat the boss like a friend or complain about work too honestly, you will regret it on Monday morning.

The Endless Night
Just when you think it’s over, someone shouts “Nijikai!” (Second Party). Then maybe “Sanjikai” (Third Party). This can go on until the last train or morning. The next day, everyone pretends nothing happened. “I don’t remember” is the magical phrase that erases all embarrassing karaoke performances.

Survival Tips After the Party (Related Articles)
The Nomikai is over, but the night might not be. Here are two tips for when the party continues (or ends disastrously).

1. Still Thirsty? Drink Outside! If the Izakaya is full, don’t worry. In Japan, you can grab a beer from a Konbini and drink it right on the sidewalk.
👉 Wait, is that legal? Check out: “Why Is It Legal to Drink Alcohol on the Street in Japan?”

Why Is It Legal to Drink Alcohol on the Street in Japan?

2. Missed the Last Train? Did the “Nijikai” go too long? If the trains have stopped and hotels are too expensive, there is a cozy sanctuary waiting for you.
👉 Where to sleep for cheap? Check out: “Why Do Some People Live in Cyber Cafes? (The ‘Manga Kissa’ Paradise)”