Why Do Japanese Waiters Make an “X” Sign at Me?

You can use the “X” too. When you have finished your meal and want the bill, catch the waiter’s eye and cross your index fingers to make a small “X.” This is the universal sign for “Check, please.” It saves you from having to shout across the room or struggle with Japanese phrases.

Conversely, if you ask “Is this okay?” and the staff makes a big circle with their arms above their head, that means “OK!” or “Yes!” These gestures are extremely common in loud Izakayas where hearing voices is difficult. Master the “X” and “O,” and you can communicate without words.