Why Do Japanese Men Buy Marshmallows on March 14th? (The “White Day” Pressure)

Not in the USA
If you are from the US, you have probably never heard of “White Day.” In the West, couples exchange gifts together on Valentine’s Day. In Japan, February 14th is strictly for women to give chocolate to men. Exactly one month later, on March 14th, men must return the favor.

The Secret Code
Be careful what you give!

・Hard Candy: “I love you” (Lasts a long time). Knowing this secret code is crucial for your romantic survival in Japan.
・Marshmallows: “I dislike you” (They melt quickly). Ironically, the day started as ‘Marshmallow Day’, but meanings changed!
・Cookies: “Let’s stay friends” (Dry and casual).

The Season of Love & Goodbyes (Related Articles)
White Day is the “sequel” to Valentine’s Day. But why do men have to return the gift? And what other romantic traditions happen in March?

1. The Prequel: Valentine’s Day White Day only exists because of a unique Japanese rule: On February 14th, men do nothing! Only women give chocolates to men. It is the “Reverse Rule” of the West.
👉 Why don’t men give flowers? Check out: “Why Do Only Women Give Chocolates on Valentine’s Day? (The Reverse Rule)”

Why Do Only Women Give Chocolates on Valentine’s Day? (The Reverse Rule)

2. The Graduation Romance March is also graduation season. In the schoolyard, girls rush to popular boys to ask for a specific souvenir: the “Second Button” from their uniform. It is the ultimate confession of love.
👉 Why the second one? Check out: “Why Do Japanese Girls Want the ‘Second Button’ from a Uniform? (The Graduation Romance)”

Why Do Japanese Girls Want the “Second Button” from a Uniform? (The Graduation Romance)

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